How to write a personals ad

Give just enough information to keep them interested. List things like favorite hobbies, activities, movies, books, etc. Keep things about work minimal. Say things like "a nurse at a local clinic" or "mortician at a funeral home." You get the idea.

Don't fixate on only one aspect of your life. You come off sounding one-dimensional and obsessed. Write things people can relate to, such as where you're from, where you live, or where you're going in life.

Don't dwell on problems or limitations. You can talk about those things later. If you have children, mention them briefly. People want to know you will have time for them.

Think about what you're looking for, and don't set too many limitations. It might hinder some great opportunities. Don't say you're looking for the love of your life and want to get married.

Good words: affectionate, likes to cuddle, interested in a committed relationship, sensitive, great cook, romantic, caring, monogamous, down-to-earth, sophisticated, etc.

Bad words: remember not to boast to much try not to type things like: good in bed, well hung, great lover, love to satisfy you etc. these make you look shallow.

Increase your response rate by ten times by posting a photo. You can also offer to exchange photos (photos - not porn here people). Send your best photos. First impressions are crucial.

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Write a catchy headline. Make it memorable but not boastful.

Post a photo - make it simple. It should be a picture of how you normally look, so no prom pictures or Glamour Shots.

Describe yourself and the person you're seeking. Focus on positives about yourself.

Show, don't tell! Be creative with your ad and make it stand out.

List uncommon things like intriguing features, most memorable experiences, what celebrities you might resemble.

Keep it brief and never lie.

Double-check grammar and spelling.

If you want to achieve similar Internet Dating success, think about what is important to you...what you want and who you are. Then start writing!

When writing an ad, set the mood. Be relaxed, put on some nice music, be in a good mood. Write all your thoughts down before posting them.

Show off your personal style, like a wacky sense of humor or stream-of-consciousness thinking.

Share feelings and experiences. Try to communicate these three attributes: sense of humor, integrity, and self-confidence (but don't boast).

Include a photo of yourself - try to find one where you're alone and in a well-lit area. Nothing too revealing.

Don't work on your profile when you're down, don't over think it, and don't give negative details. Just listing all the details of your love life is boring. Spice it up.